I’ve been slack: I simply haven’t been writing the past few weeks. I guess sometimes you just get too busy being awesome; very time consuming!
A few weeks back I wrote ‘Endure to Conquer’ and chatted about the challenges and projects I’m working on at the moment. It still all holds true: nothing earth-shattering has gone down in a few weeks but I’ve gained some great momentum in the direction I want to be heading (i.e. cashed up in tiny shorts, drinking gin with my 87-yr-old Nan in Central Queensland on a Tuesday). Ok that’s a bit unrealistic. She doesn’t drink gin.
So a few weeks ago a dear friend called me to touch base and see how I was travelling. I promptly burst into tears as girls are sometimes prone to doing. It was then that I received the best piece of advice I have received in eons.
He said: ‘I know you’re not overly enjoying what you’re doing at the moment. You’re not where you think you should be. You’re not where you want to be. But I know there are moments in every single day that you enjoy. Hold on to those moments. The joy you have will help gloss over the crappy parts and make time go quicker.’*
Simple? Yes. Obvious? Maybe. Poignant? Absolutely.
I always endeavour to be patient with the advice I receive, as it is always well meant, but often feels redundant. This pearler really hit home for me because it was exactly what I needed at the time.
Whatever is going on in your life, there is always joy to be had. Those great moments spent with your colleagues, friends, children, your partner, in nature, that nod between two joggers pounding pavement in the early morning.
As we get closer to Christmas there are the inevitable parties, ‘must-catch-up-before-Christmas’ drinks, shopping, cooking and preparing for holidays. Lots of fun to be had. I actually had my first bout of Christmas baking yesterday with a beloved girlfriend: gingerbread and shortbread in 30 degree heat and 90% humidity felt somewhat counterintuitive, but fun nonetheless!
Whilst for most of us there is a lot to be excited for and happy about: Christmas can often be a stressful time. Trying to wrap things up for the end of the year, achieve the goals you have set for 2011, do all the shopping and preparations for the holidays.
This year I am going to do my best to enjoy the season, see the people I hold dearest and give the gift of time. (Don’t worry friends, that time gift still yields shortbread and rumballsl!) I look forward to spending quality time with friends and family and refuse to be caught up in the hype of super-spending on elaborate gifts. As much as I love to give and receive gifts at Christmas, I also love the gifts that are given randomly for no special occasion: like the gift of wise words from my great friend when I needed them.
His words pushed me to actively take more joy in life again; even though it can be a hard slog. I’ve so much to be thankful for, I can’t imagine what I’ve done to deserve such blessings.
So folks, this festive season why not ease up on the crazy spending and spend the time that would normally be tied up in shopping/gift-wrapping/stressing over credit card bills with the people that make your life worth living. In 12 months’ time it will be those moments shared that you remember more than any gifts you gave or received.
Wrapping up; if you are feeling a little lost or feel the need for a little inspiration, I recommend Steve Jobs’ chat at a University graduation some 6 years ago. What a legend. See link below.
http://www.ted.com/talks/steve_jobs_how_to_live_before_you_die.html
Happy holidays everyone! 4 weeks ’til Christmas: woohoo!
xoxo,
AB
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